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彭先生总结:
1. Looks like we have a very good family get together tonight.  The number of participants should be close to our record, if not the record. We are very happy to see some of you who have not been with us for a while.  Also thanks go to 田宝莲 for her leadership for a great meeting tonight.

2. You have thoroughly analyzed and discussed our meeting subject 拖延症 tonight. We can quote 龙金凤 and 刘欣’s summary on the consequence of 拖延症 ‘拖延症的一大缺点就是到了最后,你就只会是为了“完成”,而不是“做好”。

1. 看来我们今晚组织了一次非常成功的家庭聚会,与会人数即便没有达到我们曾经的最高记录,应该也已接近最高记录。并且我们很高兴地看到部分有一段时间未曾“露面”的同学今天也来开会了。当然我们也感谢田宝莲今晚非常优秀的主持。

3. We can start with looking at the human nature, “趋易避难” and “好逸恶劳” as indicated by 田宝蓮.  As 吳吉海 and 刘欣 said: ‘觉得人在做事的时候,一般心里都是有轻重缓急的。’ However, we normally don’t have the discipline to allocate our time in that order.
2 你们对今晚的会议主题“拖延症”进行了透彻的分析和讨论。对于拖延症会带来怎样的后果,我们在此可以引用龙金凤和刘欣的总结:拖延症的一大缺点就是到了最后,你就只会是为了“完成”,而不是“做好”。’

4. There are things we like to do, but there are also things we need to do.  As 王娟 and 向芃 said ‘在做一件自己感兴趣的事时拖延症就不药而愈了’ and ‘的确是有兴趣才有动力’.  However we also have to answer 龙金凤’s question on the things we don’t particularly like to, but need to do and it’s not easy to do. ‘要是自己不喜欢的事怎么办?’ Especially those things we are not doing for ourselves, but to help others, or even for the society.

3 就如同田宝莲所指出的,“趋易避难”和“好逸恶劳”都是人性的一部分,我们可以从这里说起。就像吴吉海和刘欣所说,”觉得人在做事的时候,一般心里都是有轻重缓急的。“不过在实施起来时,我们却通常都做不到去严格遵守时间分配时的纪律。



5. 向芃 is right ‘ 没有监督, 很容易放纵自己’. But the only way we can have a great organization / society is when the individuals of the society can “监自己的工”.  We have to learn how to develop the self-discipline.


4 有些事是我们喜欢去做的;不过也有很多事,是我们不那么喜欢做,但是却需要去做的。就像王娟 、向芃分虽说到的,“在做一件自己感兴趣的事时拖延症就不药而愈了”,“的确是有兴趣才有动力”。不过,我们也不得不回答龙金凤所提出的——如何面对我们很不喜欢做,但是却需要去做,并且并不容易做的事。她说,“要是自己不喜欢的事怎么办?”。尤其是有些事情,我们去做那些事情时,其实并不是为了我们自己,而是为了帮助他人,甚至是帮助这个社会。

6. Of course, it’s not easy, because it’s not part of the human nature. But we can all try to learn to develop it from the small things. For me it is to make up my bed every morning, finish all the business approvals sent to my office each day, wash the dishes each night after dinner. As you can see those are all the small things we like to delay until tomorrow. But it’s a self-discipline we need to develop to do the great important things.


5 向芃说得对,“(如果)没有监督,会很容易放纵自己”。不过,要建设一个运转良好的伟大机构以及美好社会的唯一途径,就是机会/社会中的每一个个体都能够“监自己的工”。所以我们一定要学会培养起自己的自律。

7. Agree with 王梦兰 that 田文湿 was fine. Try to give yourself sometime to think through on the difficult issues before jumping to take immediate actions is not a bad idea at all.

Correction for point 7:  "Agree with 王梦兰 that 田文鹏 was fine. "

6 当然,建立起自律并不容易,因为自律并不是人性的一部分(也就是说,建立自律是在和人性作战)。当然我们都可以学着从小事上做起。对我来说,我每天起床后都整理好自己的床,每天都把所有发送到我办公室的公文处理掉,每天晚饭后我都把碗碟洗干净。你们可以看到,这些都是我们喜欢拖延到第二天去做的小事,但是我就从这些小事上来建立自己的自律,只有这样,我们才能建立起足够的自律去处理好那些更伟大、更具深远意义的大事。

8. Looks like some of you are planning to take trips during the forthcoming 清明 holidays. Wish you all have a safe and enjoyable holiday.

9. Take very good care, see you all in a month! Good night! Any announcements from the management team?

7 同意王梦兰,田文鹏很好(译者注:抱歉,关于田文鹏这句话我没太看明白。如翻译有误,请大家指正)。面对棘手事务时,在立即着手行动之前,试着给自己一些时间来进行周全的思虑,是非常不错的一个方式。

8 看来有些同学已经在为自己的清明假期准备旅行计划了。祝你们都度过安全、愉快的假期。


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