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2017年10月QQ月會-彭先生縂結
月會主題：社交网络Social Media
现代的社会社交网络已经相当普及，基本上每个人都会使用到。有的人用社交网络很好的帮自己解决了问题，不过，还有很多人深陷其中，每天会在社交网络上花去相当多的时间，甚至沉迷于虚拟的人际关系，网络上就出现过比如“点赞之交”这些词语。为此，我们真的应该好好反省自己，到底应该怎么看待社交网络，应该如何使用社交网络？
主持人：姚俊𤇍
1. Thanks俊杰 for a very serious and heavy subject for tonight's 素籣's monthly QQmeeting.
谢谢俊杰为我们今晚的QQ月会选了一个非常严肃和讓人深思的话题来供大家讨论
2. First I have to admit, tonight's subject "The Social Media 社交網絡" is a subject which I know much less than all of you. I do use WeChat, WhatsApp to communicate with family members and a few close friends, because the it's quite efficient and free of charge.
首先我得承认，关于今晚的主题《社交网络》，我比所有在座的同学都所知更少。我的确有在用微信、WhatsApp等，因为用它们来和家人及好友联系是非常便捷高效而又不需花費的。
3. With that in mind, you have taught me a lot on the subject tonight. Let's start with 彭麗琴's very nice introduction：长期依赖网络社交导致现实社交能力减低⋯⋯现在的社会基本已经人人离不开网络社交了，可现实是社交途径越来越多⋯⋯人与人之间的距离却越来越远。社交能力是一个人很重要的素质，长期只注重网络社交，导致现实中与人的相处能力开始削弱。
因此，今晚你们教会了我很多。让我引用彭丽琴的这段话来开始我的总结吧，她这个介绍说得非常好：长期依赖网络社交导致现实社交能力减低⋯⋯现在的社会基本已经人人离不开网络社交了，可现实是社交途径越来越多⋯⋯人与人之间的距离却越来越远。社交能力是一个人很重要的素质，长期只注重网络社交，导致现实中与人的相处能力开始削弱。
4. Through the social media today everybody if he or she wishes can directly broadcast to millions of people. Through Google/Baidu we can also almost instantly search everything you want to know.
通过社交媒体，每一个人都可以直接地触达到数以百万计的观众/听众。通过谷歌、百度，我们也可以即刻搜索到任何我们想要获知的信息
5. With that the big problem we are all facing is it's almost impossible for us to know what's true and what's not, what's real and what's virtual. As 彭波 said"信息是爆炸纷乱的，重要的是自己的筛选过程", and at the end most of us would be like what 肖居安 said"周边接触到的信息越来越多了，无力筛选". We will eventually become not capable to screen.
也正因如此，我们所有人都要面临的一个大问题是，我们几乎难以辨别到底哪些是真的，哪些是假的；哪些是实际存在的，哪些是虚无缥缈的。就像彭波说的，"信息是爆炸纷乱的，重要的是自己的筛选过程",然后结果就是我们大多数人都会像肖居安说的那样，"周边接触到的信息越来越多了，无力筛选"。到最終，林林总总的信息让我们难以甄别检查。
6. Just like what I told you before, as a result of the driving force of the speedy technology enhancement, the world has changed drastically in the past, and will continue to change even faster in the future. However, there is one thing that has not changed in the past and will not change even in the future, which is people and human nature. I think eventually people will be the only limitation of the technology enhancement.
就像我以前和你们说过的，科技的极速发展推动了世界的剧变，这种剧变在过去和现在都一直在发生；在未来，还会发生並且更为迅猛。但是，无论世界如何改变，有一样东西是亘古以来从未变过的，那就是人和人性。我想最终来说，限制科技無限快速發展的唯一制約因素将会是人类本身能承受的極限。
7. The invention of the digitization, and later on the development of Internet and social media, as you said, all have brought great convenience in our lives.However, the question is can it also bring people happiness? It's nice to have lots of information, choices of goods/services, huge social chat group (朋友圈),but at the end, people, not the technology, are their own limits. We are not capable to swallow that many things with such a great speed. After all,convenience is not the real happiness. We have to slow down. In order to enjoy 快活, we need to first 慢活.
從數位化科技發展出來的互联网以及社交媒体，就像你们所说，的的确确为我们的生活带来了极大的便利。但问题在于，它们是否也能给人们带来快乐？科技为我们带来巨量信息、选择非常丰富的商品和服务以及海量的朋友圈，但最终来说，它们的局限将在于人类本身，而不是科技。科技进步带给我们所有这些便利，这是好事，但这一切都太快了，快到我们承受不了。所以，最后这些便利并不能成为我们真正的快乐。我们得先慢下来，慢下来，让我们能够承受这一切。为了快活，我们先要慢活。
8. At last, 翟艳妮 said it very well that social media is just a tool of communication,and it's virtual instead of the reality. Let's also quote 李喜's thoughts to conclude tonight's discussion："⋯⋯但与面对面还是不一样，彭先生说的见面三分情也是这个道理。想到小时候，一家人坐在一起看电视聊天，现在都拿着手机，各做各的事，那种时光想必是回不去了。现在想来，以前的车、信都很慢，现在的高铁、飞机、邮件、微信都很快，慢有慢的好，快也有快的优势，但人还是那个人，希望大家不要被虚拟的网络所沉迷，毕竟回到现实，面对一堆事要做的还是你。"
最后，翟艳妮说得非常好，她说社交媒体只是一个沟通工具，而它终究是虚擬而不是真实的。讓我們引用李喜的发言来作为我们今晚的总结："⋯⋯但与面对面还是不一样，彭先生说的见面三分情也是这个道理。想到小时候，一家人坐在一起看电视聊天，现在都拿着手机，各做各的事，那种时光想必是回不去了。现在想来，以前的车、信都很慢，现在的高铁、飞机、邮件、微信都很快，慢有慢的好，快也有快的优势，但人还是那个人，希望大家不要被虚拟的网络所沉迷，毕竟回到现实，面对一堆事要做的还是你。"
9. Instead of spending too much of your time on social media, can we all think about how to spend time with your heart to do a bit small real things for others, doesn't matter how small it is? Has the Board/Committee received any proposal of projects to help others for review and approval? Any other things the Board/Management would like to share with us?
與其花盡時間在社交媒体，我们是否可以多用心花時間想想如何为他人做一点实实在在的小事？那怕再小都成。理事会/运营团队有没有收到关于帮助他人的項目提案及預算申請呢？或者理事会/运营团队有没有其他的信息要和大家分享的呢？
10. Hope you all had a very nice long holidays! I will have a business trip to 貴州丹寨 next Monday, and will have another trip to 北京 in the last week of the month. Hope to see the 北京幫 family members there! Looking forward to talking to you all in a month. Good night, and please take very good care!
希望你们都度过了一个愉快的國庆跟中秋长假！下周一我要去贵州丹寨出差，然后月底的最后一周再到北京出差。希望到时能见到北京帮的家人们！期待着下个月和你们再见。晚安，请多多保重！
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